For Men
1. When he ceases to be a boy and becomes a man physically, mentally, and financially.
2. When he is mature and responsible.
3. When he has his place, buys the groceries and pays his bills.
4. When he can love a woman for who she is and not the shape of her body. (Looks can be deceiving).
5. When he can protect a woman.
6. When he is ready to take care of a woman and provide for her (pay the bills, dress her up, give her spending money, feed her, and spoil her).
7. When he is ready for marriage (Marriage is hard work).
8. When he can handle the pressure that comes with marriage and having a family altogether.
9. When he can be an example to his wife children and parent his children.
10. When he has a source of income (a job, business, etc). This one is none negotiable.
11. When he learns how to say sorry when he is wrong.
12. When he is ready to leave his parents in all ways and start his family. He must also never compare her to his mother.
13. When he develops a healthy and strong relationship with God and submits to Him. (Going to Church doesn’t mean you are a Christian – even Satanists go to Church).
14. If He can handle his temper at all costs.
For Women
1. When she ceases to be a girl, mentally, financially, and physically.
2. When she can submit to the man as her lord without a fight or disrespect.
3. When she can be a mother and parent her kids.
4. When she has a source of income if possible – what would she do if a man left her, divorced her, or died because she had all her eggs in his basket?
5. When she learns how to say sorry without justifications when she is wrong.
6. When she is ready to leave her parents in all ways and not compare the man to her father.
7. When she is willing to be unselfish.
8. When she has a strong and healthy relationship with God and can submit to Him.
9. When she can cook and TAKE CARE at her home. (house helpers must never take your place in the life of your man and family – Men, let’s also not forget a woman is not a cooking machine or washing machine – let’s work together, if we are busy, we can find a way to make her load leisurely by getting involved).
10. If she can also pay bills in the house – this would be added advantage. (A man takes responsibility for the bills in a home and he is a MANAGER of his home – if the wife also has an income, the manager with his assistant (wife) will see how the two incomes can be managed). But the man must take headship as a manager.
11. When she ceases to be on social media for hours and begins to do something constructive.
12. When she starts to dress modestly. (For some women of today, the only thing private about them these days are their lungs – Mercy Lord! Forgive Lord! Anything precious must be covered (hidden).
These are just some of the points to consider as we all know that there are so many things to consider. Let’s look more into this next week.
Biography
Dr. Humphrey Mutiti is a Pastor, conference speaker, instructor, and a lecturer at Great Commission Bible College, an author of several books, has a DTh, a DMin and a student in the School of law.
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